I believe that the aim is to get off Paxil and that quality of life, as much as is possible, is the main thing to strive for during the process. I know when I first started I just wanted to be OFF the damn things but now it really doesn't bother me. I know it will happen. Eventually. In the fullness of time. At the appropriate juncture (think Yes Minister, for those who have seen it :D)

Unfortunately for some the process is harder because of the sensitivity to the changes. I wish there was an easier way for those people but unfortunately there isn't. So I guess my motto would be "no pain, no gain".