Welcome, Joy!
I’m so sorry you’re having to go through these stressful, scary symptoms. It is highly likely that they are due both to the damaging effects of the meds and to the disarray and slow reorganization caused by getting off the drugs. And the symptoms will slowly heal.
In early w/d I had trouble pronouncing and ordering words, and I don’t now.
One question I have is what is the timing of the speech problem in relation to starting the Trazadone?
Please read the Omega-3 thread, and consider Omega-3 to repair your nervous system and lower your blood pressure.
Joy – I have to say I think you have tapered off the Effexor too fast. I’m concerned. It might be necessary to go back on, say, 10 – 25 % of your original dose. Stabilize. And re-taper much more slowly.
Detox would definitely be too much for your system this early on.